Intimate Wedding Venues in South Africa

South Africa offers a breathtaking backdrop for an intimate wedding, from sun-drenched vineyards to secluded coastal retreats. Discover a curated selection of small wedding venues in South Africa, perfect for couples dreaming of a personal celebration. Whether you envision a boutique hotel in Cape Town or a private game lodge in the bush, the ideal setting for your close-knit gathering awaits, promising unforgettable moments in a stunning atmosphere. Read moreThese smaller venues specialise in creating a cosy and exclusive experience, ensuring every detail of your day is perfectly tailored. With fewer guests, you can focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love with your nearest and dearest. Explore spaces that offer bespoke packages, gourmet dining, and unparalleled service, making your intimate South African wedding a truly unique and cherished event.
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VinBoHo

Cape Town, City of Cape Town Metropolitan Municipality
Thank you for your interest in Vinboho and for allowing us the opportunity to provide you, and your guests an unforgettable wedding experience!
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Providence Country

Nottingham Road, uMgungundlovu District Municipality
Our wedding venue in KZN boasts exquisite indoor and outdoor wedding ceremony sites and a breathtaking reception area, along with the radiant bride and groom suites, to create a heart-warming experience for every part of your wedding day.
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  • 180
  • Moderate ($$)
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Santa Paloma Guest Farm

East London, Buffalo City Metropolitan Municipality
Our wedding venue is flexible and offers couples a one-stop wedding destination. Our farm offers beautiful natural vistas and quiet secluded hideaways where photographers can record your special day forever
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  • 120
  • Moderate ($$)
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Intiem

Pretoria, City of Tshwane Metropolitan Municipality
Intiem weddings are all about small details, executed with perfection. Located just outside of Pretoria, at the foot of the beautiful Magaliesberg, we strive to create a memorable start to your life together.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Villa Villekula

The Crags, South Africa, Garden Route District Municipality
The Eco friendly building is raised on 18 pillars leaving a minimum footprint and stunning views - making it a great location for a small wedding.
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  • 30
  • Moderate ($$)
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Silver Mist

Kaapschehoop, Ehlanzeni District Municipality
Fairy-tale Weddings is a leading wedding venue and is located in the historical village of Kaapsehoop, Mpumalanga.
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  • 120
  • Moderate ($$)
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Togryersvlei

Saldanha, West Coast District Municipality
The main wedding venue mostly used for our weddings, can seat from 40 up to 200 guests with a dance floor – the bar also build in-house to prevent the party from splitting up.
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  • 200
  • Moderate ($$)
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Evertsdal Guest House

Cape Town, City of Cape Town Metropolitan Municipality
Evertsdal is the perfect wedding venue for intimate summer and winter weddings of up to 40 guests. Our gardens provide the perfect backdrop for any wedding.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Pampoenkraal

Cape Town, City of Cape Town Metropolitan Municipality
Surrounded by majestic oak trees and wide open fields, Pampoenkraal wedding venue lies hidden away on the scenic Altydgedacht Wine Estate.
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  • 140
  • Moderate ($$)
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Thulani

Pretoria, City of Tshwane Metropolitan Municipality
Thulani Wedding Venue is well know for its amazing setting. We believe in professional service delivery. If you are searching for an wedding venue stop. You’ve found us.
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  • 200
  • Moderate ($$)
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Toadbury Hall

Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality
Couples are spoiled for choice when it comes to options for their wedding. Host a delectable outdoor picnic, or for a more traditional feel, the estate’s main banqueting hall provides a blend of charm and elegance.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Monte Vista Venue

Pretoria, City of Tshwane Metropolitan Municipality
Congratulations on taking the first steps towards a life long journey, and here at Monte Vista, we are all about making your dreams come true.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Kangelani lodge

Outer West Durban, eThekwini Metropolitan Municipality
Perched on Alverstone Hill, with panoramic views of the Assagay Valley, is an African style lodge set in log and stone offering serenity, relaxation and warm hospitality, Kangelani Lodge is the perfect Wedding Venue!
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Volmoed

Onrus, Overberg District Municipality
Volmoed is a special place with its peaceful beautiful surroundings and its well-maintained wedding facilities to make lasting memories.
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Holden Manz Wine Estate

Franschhoek, Cape Winelands District Municipality
The natural beauty of Holden Manz Wine Estate is as pure as the love between two life partners declaring to spend each and every day of their lives together. Franschhoek is one of Cape Towns most bespoke wedding venue locations!
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  • Moderate ($$)
Everything you need to know about weddings in South Africa

South Africa's diverse landscapes offer unique settings for a smaller celebration.

  • Winelands Wonders: Boutique wine estates in Stellenbosch and Franschhoek provide romantic, exclusive settings.
  • Coastal Charms: Secluded beach lodges along the Garden Route or West Coast offer breathtaking ocean views.
  • Bushveld Bliss: Private game reserves and luxury safari lodges create an unforgettable backdrop for your vows.
  • City Chic: Stylish boutique hotels and private villas in Cape Town or Johannesburg offer modern elegance.

Planning Your Day:

  • Legalities: To marry in South Africa, you'll need valid passports and, if applicable, divorce decrees. You must have two witnesses present. Many venues offer assistance with the paperwork.
  • Guest Lists: An intimate wedding (typically under 50 guests) allows for more personalised experiences and a bigger budget per head.
  • Suppliers: Focus on suppliers who specialise in smaller, bespoke events to enhance the personal feel of your day.

Venue hire for an intimate wedding in South Africa can vary widely based on location and exclusivity.

  • Dry Hire: Expect to pay from R20,000 to R60,000 for exclusive use of a smaller venue space, without catering or extras.
  • Package Deals: All-inclusive packages for 20-50 guests can range from R80,000 to R250,000+, often including catering and basic decor.
  • Mid-week Savings: Booking your intimate celebration on a weekday can often lead to significant cost reductions.

Budgeting Tips for Intimate Weddings:

  • Prioritise Spending: With fewer guests, you can allocate more budget to elements that matter most, like gourmet food or incredible photography.
  • All-Inclusive Venues: These can be more cost-effective as they bundle services and reduce the need to hire multiple vendors.
  • Hidden Costs: Always ask about potential extra costs like service fees, gratuities, and charges for bringing in your own suppliers.

South Africa's climate varies by region, so picking the right season is key.

  • Western Cape (e.g., Cape Town): Best from November to March for warm, dry summer days.
  • Gauteng (e.g., Johannesburg): Enjoys dry, sunny winters and warm summers with afternoon thunderstorms.
  • KwaZulu-Natal Coast: Humid and subtropical year-round, with hot summers and mild, dry winters.

Seasonal Considerations:

  • Summer (Dec-Feb): Peak season. Perfect for outdoor ceremonies, but have a backup plan for rain or wind.
  • Autumn (Mar-May): Often considered the best time, with mild temperatures and beautiful colours.
  • Winter (Jun-Aug): Great for finding venue deals and enjoying cosy, fireplace settings. Ideal for safari weddings.
  • Spring (Sep-Nov): Wildflower season in the Western Cape provides a stunning natural backdrop.

Ensuring your guests can travel easily is important for a destination wedding.

  • Major Airports: O.R. Tambo (Johannesburg), Cape Town International, and King Shaka (Durban) are the main international hubs.
  • Getting Around: Renting cars is the most common way to travel between cities and to venues outside urban centres.
  • Local Transport: Ride-sharing services are widely available in major cities for local trips.

Accommodation for Small Groups:

  • Venue Stays: Many intimate venues, like private villas or lodges, offer exclusive-use accommodation for your entire guest list.
  • Boutique Hotels: Recommend nearby boutique hotels or guesthouses that offer a personalised experience.
  • Group Bookings: Enquire about block-booking discounts at nearby hotels, even for a smaller number of rooms.
FAQ's

What is considered a 'small' or 'intimate' wedding in South Africa?

Generally, an intimate wedding in South Africa hosts 50 guests or fewer. This size allows for a more personal experience and often opens up unique venue possibilities that can't accommodate larger crowds, such as boutique hotels, private villas, or exclusive-use safari lodges.

Do I need a wedding planner for a small wedding in South Africa?

While not essential, a planner can be invaluable, especially for a destination wedding. They have local knowledge, supplier connections, and can manage legalities, allowing you to enjoy the planning process. For a smaller wedding, some planners offer partial planning or day-of coordination services.

What are the legal requirements for getting married in South Africa as a non-resident?

Foreign nationals can legally marry in South Africa. You will need to present your valid passports and a BI-31 form (Declaration for the Purpose of Marriage). If either party has been divorced or widowed, the final decree of divorce or death certificate is required. All documents not in English must be officially translated.

Are there noise restrictions at intimate venues I should be aware of?

Yes, most venues, especially those in residential areas or nature reserves, have noise policies and curfews, typically around 10 PM or 11 PM. It's crucial to discuss this with your venue beforehand to ensure it aligns with your entertainment plans for the evening.

Can I have an outdoor ceremony at a small venue in South Africa?

Absolutely. South Africa's stunning scenery makes it perfect for outdoor ceremonies. However, the weather can be unpredictable. Always ensure your chosen venue has a suitable and equally beautiful indoor alternative or a marquee option as a contingency plan.

How far in advance should I book an intimate wedding venue?

Even for a smaller wedding, it's wise to book your venue 9-12 months in advance, especially if you're getting married during the popular summer season (December-February) or on a weekend. Highly sought-after intimate venues can get booked up quickly.