Intimate Wedding Venues in South Africa

South Africa offers a breathtaking backdrop for an intimate wedding, from sun-drenched vineyards to secluded coastal retreats. Discover a curated selection of small wedding venues in South Africa, perfect for couples dreaming of a personal celebration. Whether you envision a boutique hotel in Cape Town or a private game lodge in the bush, the ideal setting for your close-knit gathering awaits, promising unforgettable moments in a stunning atmosphere. Read moreThese smaller venues specialise in creating a cosy and exclusive experience, ensuring every detail of your day is perfectly tailored. With fewer guests, you can focus on what truly matters: celebrating your love with your nearest and dearest. Explore spaces that offer bespoke packages, gourmet dining, and unparalleled service, making your intimate South African wedding a truly unique and cherished event.
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La Colline Venue

Gqeberha, Nelson Mandela Bay Metropolitan Municipality
La Colline is a breathtakingly beautiful country estate venue, nestled in lush greenery with stunning views, elegant facilities, and serene surroundings, perfect for unforgettable weddings and special occasions.
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  • 130
  • Moderate ($$)
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Mangwa Valley Game Lodge

Klipdrift, Gauteng
Tailor made wedding packages to suit your need's, budget & wants. Award Winning Chapel with its spectacular view of the bush-veld and undulating valleys for your wedding day.
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  • 32 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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The Oyster Box

Durban, KwaZulu-Natal
Welcome to The Oyster Box, where your dream wedding becomes a reality. Whatever your vision, we have the venue, facilities, and service to create an unforgettable wedding day. Let us make your dream wedding a reality.
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  • 120
  • 86 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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2Ten Hotel

Limpopo Province
Create a lifelong memory of your special day. We’re fully flexible and ready to adapt to all your needs on your wedding day!
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  • 350
  • Affordable ($)
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Rain Farm Game Lodge

uMhlali
Celebrate your wedding in the Boma with its ethnic feel or the Fairy Light Patio with its breathless view under the night sky, whilst enjoying a delicious gourmet meal.
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  • Luxury ($$$)
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Rhino Ridge Safari Lodge

KwaNompondo
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MINDFUL LUXURY AND SPACE IN THE HLUHLUWE-IMFOLOZI PARK Capturing the suspension between earth and sky, this glass wrapped lodge rests on a ridge overlooking Africa’s oldest game reserve.
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  • 36
  • 16 Bedrooms
  • R 2 000 – R 2 450
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Pondoro Game Lodge

Balule Game Reserve
Pondoro Game Lodge is a private Wedding or Honeymoon destination that offers the finest Safari experience on a scale that delivers an intimate experience.
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  • Super luxury ($$$$)
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Lagoon Beach Hotel & Spa

Cape Town
Indulge in magnificent views of Table Mountain over the Atlantic Ocean while situated on the beautiful Lagoon Beach, only 8.6km from Cape Town’s central business district and the V&A Waterfront – a hub of activity any time of the year.
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  • 179 Bedrooms
  • Luxury ($$$)
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Mont d'Or Swartberg Hotel

Prince Albert
Envision your wedding in the picturesque setting of Prince Albert or amidst the breathtaking scenery of the Swartberg Pass at Eerste Water. Allow us to bring your dream to life as your dedicated wedding planners for this special day.
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  • 25 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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Battlefields Country Lodge

Dundee
Dundee Battlefields Lodge is the favourite wedding venue in Dundee, and the KZN interior. With different indoor and outdoor wedding venues to choose from, you can create your wedding, your way.
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  • 700
  • 70 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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Hallmark House Hotel

Johannesburg
From wedding planning, to vendor management, to on-site coordination, our dedicated and passionate team are here to run the show and serve you. So, you can be the star!
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  • 46 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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Lekoa Lodge

Wilgefontein
Stay, play, interact, and join together Just 90 minute’s drive from Johannesburg, you’ll find a slice of countryside paradise.
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  • 100
  • Moderate ($$)
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Madikwe Safari Lodge

Madikwe Game Reserve
Life is all about celebrating special moments. Nature has created the perfect picturesque surroundings for you and your loved ones to celebrate your wedding.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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The Rasmus

Pretoria
Experience the magic of an intimate wedding at our venue, where love is celebrated in its purest form. Nestled in the heart of Pretoria, our wedding venue is ideal for couples seeking the perfect blend of elegance, nature, and modern sophistication.
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  • Moderate ($$)
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Avela Lodge

Hekpoort, Gauteng
At Avela Lodge, we specialize in creating extraordinary weddings. With our expertise and passion, we will guide you through the entire wedding planning process, ensuring a seamless experience that you will never forget.
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  • 250
  • 10 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
Everything you need to know about weddings in South Africa

South Africa's diverse landscapes offer unique settings for a smaller celebration.

  • Winelands Wonders: Boutique wine estates in Stellenbosch and Franschhoek provide romantic, exclusive settings.
  • Coastal Charms: Secluded beach lodges along the Garden Route or West Coast offer breathtaking ocean views.
  • Bushveld Bliss: Private game reserves and luxury safari lodges create an unforgettable backdrop for your vows.
  • City Chic: Stylish boutique hotels and private villas in Cape Town or Johannesburg offer modern elegance.

Planning Your Day:

  • Legalities: To marry in South Africa, you'll need valid passports and, if applicable, divorce decrees. You must have two witnesses present. Many venues offer assistance with the paperwork.
  • Guest Lists: An intimate wedding (typically under 50 guests) allows for more personalised experiences and a bigger budget per head.
  • Suppliers: Focus on suppliers who specialise in smaller, bespoke events to enhance the personal feel of your day.

Venue hire for an intimate wedding in South Africa can vary widely based on location and exclusivity.

  • Dry Hire: Expect to pay from R20,000 to R60,000 for exclusive use of a smaller venue space, without catering or extras.
  • Package Deals: All-inclusive packages for 20-50 guests can range from R80,000 to R250,000+, often including catering and basic decor.
  • Mid-week Savings: Booking your intimate celebration on a weekday can often lead to significant cost reductions.

Budgeting Tips for Intimate Weddings:

  • Prioritise Spending: With fewer guests, you can allocate more budget to elements that matter most, like gourmet food or incredible photography.
  • All-Inclusive Venues: These can be more cost-effective as they bundle services and reduce the need to hire multiple vendors.
  • Hidden Costs: Always ask about potential extra costs like service fees, gratuities, and charges for bringing in your own suppliers.

South Africa's climate varies by region, so picking the right season is key.

  • Western Cape (e.g., Cape Town): Best from November to March for warm, dry summer days.
  • Gauteng (e.g., Johannesburg): Enjoys dry, sunny winters and warm summers with afternoon thunderstorms.
  • KwaZulu-Natal Coast: Humid and subtropical year-round, with hot summers and mild, dry winters.

Seasonal Considerations:

  • Summer (Dec-Feb): Peak season. Perfect for outdoor ceremonies, but have a backup plan for rain or wind.
  • Autumn (Mar-May): Often considered the best time, with mild temperatures and beautiful colours.
  • Winter (Jun-Aug): Great for finding venue deals and enjoying cosy, fireplace settings. Ideal for safari weddings.
  • Spring (Sep-Nov): Wildflower season in the Western Cape provides a stunning natural backdrop.

Ensuring your guests can travel easily is important for a destination wedding.

  • Major Airports: O.R. Tambo (Johannesburg), Cape Town International, and King Shaka (Durban) are the main international hubs.
  • Getting Around: Renting cars is the most common way to travel between cities and to venues outside urban centres.
  • Local Transport: Ride-sharing services are widely available in major cities for local trips.

Accommodation for Small Groups:

  • Venue Stays: Many intimate venues, like private villas or lodges, offer exclusive-use accommodation for your entire guest list.
  • Boutique Hotels: Recommend nearby boutique hotels or guesthouses that offer a personalised experience.
  • Group Bookings: Enquire about block-booking discounts at nearby hotels, even for a smaller number of rooms.
FAQ's

What is considered a 'small' or 'intimate' wedding in South Africa?

Generally, an intimate wedding in South Africa hosts 50 guests or fewer. This size allows for a more personal experience and often opens up unique venue possibilities that can't accommodate larger crowds, such as boutique hotels, private villas, or exclusive-use safari lodges.

Do I need a wedding planner for a small wedding in South Africa?

While not essential, a planner can be invaluable, especially for a destination wedding. They have local knowledge, supplier connections, and can manage legalities, allowing you to enjoy the planning process. For a smaller wedding, some planners offer partial planning or day-of coordination services.

What are the legal requirements for getting married in South Africa as a non-resident?

Foreign nationals can legally marry in South Africa. You will need to present your valid passports and a BI-31 form (Declaration for the Purpose of Marriage). If either party has been divorced or widowed, the final decree of divorce or death certificate is required. All documents not in English must be officially translated.

Are there noise restrictions at intimate venues I should be aware of?

Yes, most venues, especially those in residential areas or nature reserves, have noise policies and curfews, typically around 10 PM or 11 PM. It's crucial to discuss this with your venue beforehand to ensure it aligns with your entertainment plans for the evening.

Can I have an outdoor ceremony at a small venue in South Africa?

Absolutely. South Africa's stunning scenery makes it perfect for outdoor ceremonies. However, the weather can be unpredictable. Always ensure your chosen venue has a suitable and equally beautiful indoor alternative or a marquee option as a contingency plan.

How far in advance should I book an intimate wedding venue?

Even for a smaller wedding, it's wise to book your venue 9-12 months in advance, especially if you're getting married during the popular summer season (December-February) or on a weekend. Highly sought-after intimate venues can get booked up quickly.