Too many to mention: being rowed across to small island venues on the Thames, playing in ruins - ultra romantic venues, where the bride appeared on horseback, bride & groom's reception entry by punt/farm waggon/helicopter...
Professional, organised, versatile, loving the playing
As the usual cellist for our quartets, I provide solid foundations while our versatile upper string players can play all or most of the three upper parts: result is we keep our performances fresh even when playing time-honoured standards. And we like new places to go to and having new music to play.
Choose your ceremony pieces yourselves, and let your musicians select Reception & Wedding Breakfast music to reflect the age range and likely taste in music of your guests. You'll be too busy to hear much after the ceremony, but your guests will.
Again, too many to single out one: hand-forged rose sprays (from Abbot St Forge, Kingston Lacey), hand-made dachshund napkin holders, hand-painted cherry-blossoms on paper lights for a spring wedding.
Establish timings for each part of the event, offer lists of ceremony choices & post-ceremony repertoire if needed, check for specific pieces/genres to be included or avoided, offer to make special arrangements if a ceremony or breakfast entrance piece is not available commercially for the booked combo, set time frame for completion of various aspects of preparation....