Top 12 Maid of Honour Speech Examples

Example 1: Lifelong friend maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Hello, everyone. Welcome to the wedding of [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. You may have seen me earlier in the church—I was the one standing next to the bride bawling my eyes out. Yes, thank you. I’m glad you all saw it! My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud maid of honour. 

Stories about the bride: Now, I know a maid of honour speech isn’t very traditional, but our girl [Bride’s name] isn’t very traditional. I should know—we’ve been friends since we were 3! From the moment we met in nursery, bonding over crayons and our mutual love of ‘The Tiger Who Came To Tea’, I knew she was going to be a special person in my life. Little did I know she’d grow into one of the most special people I’ve ever met. But that’s [Bride’s name] all over—full of surprises!

[Bride’s name] has always had this way of making people feel at home, whether that’s in her childhood bedroom with those questionable boy band posters, or in her grown-up home where she’s perfected the art of a cuppa and a chat. She’s the friend who remembers the little things, who shows up no matter what, and who somehow makes even the most mundane moments—like a Tesco run—feel like an adventure.

The couple’s love story: And that’s why I know [Groom’s name] is the luckiest man in the world. Because he’s married someone who brings magic into the everyday. When [Bride’s name] met [Groom’s name], I could see something shift in her. Now, don’t get me wrong—she’s always been the life and soul of any room, but with [Groom’s name], it was different. There was this lightness about her, a twinkle in her eye that wasn’t just from one of our late-night prosecco-fuelled chats. It was the kind of sparkle that only comes from finding your person.

The proposal: And I’m very proud to say, I was able to play a part in the proposal! [Bride’s name] doesn’t know this, but I actually knew about the engagement 6 months before it happened. I’m the one who slipped [Groom’s name] the ring size, helped him plan the perfect moment, and decorated the house ready for them to come home to! And I managed to keep it a secret! I was this close to cracking so many times, but seeing the joy and surprise on her face when [Groom’s name] finally popped the question made it all worth it.

Heartfelt advice: Now, I’m not married, and I don’t pretend to know loads about love. But, what I do know is this—love is about finding someone who sees you for who you truly are, and loves you not despite your quirks, but because of them. Who still thinks you’re beautiful even when your hair is greasy and you’ve fallen asleep spooning your 3am kebab again. [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name], somehow, you’ve found that in each other, and it’s such a joy to witness.

Toast to the couple: So, let’s raise a glass to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. Here’s to a lifetime of love, laughter, and being legally bound to your best mate forever! Cheers.

Example 2: Childhood friend maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, welcome. Welcome to the wedding of the year—the marriage of [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. My name is [your name], and I’m the very proud, very excited maid of honour! 

Stories about the bride: It’s been such a blessing to be beside you during this exciting process. I know just how much this day has meant to you. Right from when we were little girls, you were wandering around, pillowcase on your head, pretending to be a bride while I was forced to be your flower girl, the vicar, or some other random supporting character in our never-ending make-believe wedding ceremonies. Honestly, I’m pretty sure I performed more weddings than the local vicar back then!

But look at us now: the day has finally arrived for you to don a real wedding dress—with no pillowcase in sight—and for me to stand by your side, just as we’ve always imagined.

The couple’s love story: [Groom’s name], I hope you know what you’ve got yourself into here. When you marry [Bride’s name], you’re essentially marrying the lot of us. If you think it’s just the two of you, oh, bless your heart! Our little troop is now your little troop. But I promise, we’re mostly harmless—especially once we’ve had our morning cuppa.

The proposal: But, of course, you know that from the proposal. We all had to be involved, right down to [Bride’s name]’s little dog! The look on [Bride’s name]’s face when she realised what was happening was absolutely priceless—equal parts shock, excitement, and a tiny bit of concern for what the dog might have swallowed. But [Groom’s name], you handled it like a champ, which tells me everything I need to know about how you’ll manage whatever adventures life throws at you two.

Heartfelt advice: So now that the ring’s firmly on [Bride’s name]’s finger (and not down the dog’s throat!), you’re embarking on the biggest adventure of all—marriage. Truth be told, no one knows what the future holds, but here’s what I do know: the best relationships are built on laughter, compromise, and knowing that whatever life throws at you, it’s going to be ok, because you have each other.

Toast to the couple: So, if everyone would kindly raise their glasses (or mugs—no judgement here!), I’d like to propose a toast to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]: may you continue to be the ultimate power couple, leaning on each other’s strengths, laughing off each other’s weaknesses, and always making space for one more in your ever-growing, slightly bonkers troop (me!).

Example 3: Adventurous maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Hello, everyone! Are you all having fun? My name is [your name] and I’m here to take the place of the traditional best man speech with a way more fun maid of honour speech!

Stories about the bride: Now, those of you who know [Bride’s name] know that she’s the ultimate travel buddy. Whether it’s roughing it in Australia or pure luxury in Palma, she’s a pro at planning the perfect trip that always fits the vibe. I remember when we decided on a last-minute trip to Barcelona—well, I say last-minute, but [Bride’s name] had it all mapped out on a colour-coded spreadsheet for about a month beforehand. Flights, accommodation, best tapas spots, and the cheeky rooftop bars—she’d sorted the lot before I’d even thought to book the time off work! But, that’s just who she is: the ultimate planner, making sure everything is perfect for everyone else. Is it any shock that this wedding is so beautiful?

The couple’s love story: [Groom’s name], you’re a lucky man. Not only have you found someone who’ll organise a trip down to the tiniest detail, but you’ve also snagged someone who’ll make every step of the journey feel like an adventure. And let’s be honest, there’s no one better to get lost with in a new city than [Bride’s name], because she’ll probably have three different maps and a back-up plan for the back-up plan tucked away in her handbag anyway!

Heartfelt advice: If you want my advice, go with it. Go with every crazy, wonderful plan she brings to the table. There will be days when plans change or situations don’t go the way you thought, but trust me, half the joy are the moments you never saw coming. Embrace every twist, every detour, and every spontaneous pit stop, because those are the moments that build a life filled with stories worth telling.

Toast to the couple: Now, if everyone would join me in raising a glass, let’s toast to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]: may your marriage be the greatest adventure of all. May you keep exploring, keep laughing, and keep leaning on each other—whether you’re halfway round the world or just snuggled up on the sofa. Here’s to a lifetime of perfectly ruined plans, exciting spontaneity, and the best travel companion anyone could ask for. Cheers!

Example 4: Nostalgic maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, thank you for being here today. My name is [your name] and I’m the Bride’s bestie. Well, in fact, I’m more than that, I’m her childhood bestie. We’ve been glued at the hip since we were about 4, and I genuinely can’t recall a time in my life when she wasn’t right there, making everything brighter.

Stories about the bride: Growing up with [Bride’s name] was a never-ending series of sleepovers, secret handshakes, and endless giggles. If you needed a shoulder to cry on, a partner in crime for midnight snacks, or just someone to belt out cheesy pop songs with, she was your girl. I’ve lost count of the number of times we got into trouble for staying up way past our bedtime, plotting our futures and daydreaming about the amazing things we’d do one day.

The couple’s love story: I know one of [Bride’s name]’s dreams was always to get married. And now, standing here today, I just can’t believe that day has finally come. Here you both are, proving that dreams come true! I’m not at all surprised [Groom’s name] fell for you. Who wouldn’t fall for the girl who can light up a room just by walking into it, who cares so fiercely about the people she loves, and who always seems to know exactly when you need a good laugh or a comforting chat?

I’ve watched the two of you grow together from that very first ‘spark’ to now, and it’s been a privilege to witness. You balance each other so beautifully—[Groom’s name] bringing his calm and steady presence, and [Bride’s name] bringing her trademark sunshine and sparkle. It’s like you were made for each other, and I have no doubt that this is the start of a lifetime of shared dreams, cosy movie nights, and inside jokes only you two will ever understand.

Toast to the couple: So, to my best friend, my partner in crime since day one. Thank you for letting me be a part of this wonderful journey. I couldn’t be more proud—or more emotional! And to [Groom’s name], thank you for loving her the way she truly deserves.

To Mr and Mrs [Surname]. Cheers!

Example 5: University pals maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Friends, family, people who claim to know the bride and groom but are really just here for the cake—welcome. Welcome to the happiest day of [Groom’s name]’s life, because he’s marrying the legend that is [Bride’s name]. 

Stories about the bride: Now, I met [Bride’s name] when we were both at Exeter. We met during freshers, initially during a foam party in Tiger Tiger where she let me borrow her eyebrow pencil, and then rekindled our friendship in the subsequent netball social the next night. After that, we were just completely inseparable. Whether it was being handcuffed together during a netball social (don’t ask) or bonding over our mutual love of cheesy chips at 2am, we’ve gone through the ups and downs of uni life side by side. 

And let’s be honest, we’ve all been there—dragging ourselves to lectures on three hours’ sleep because we got carried away at Revs the night before, or attempting to nurse a next-level hangover with a questionable bacon bap from the campus café. But throughout all of that, [Bride’s name] was the one person who could make the madness feel like the absolute best time of our lives.

The couple’s love story: Or so I thought. Until, of course, my darling girl proved me wrong by meeting [Groom’s name]. Turns out, there was a life beyond post-lecture pints and flailing attempts at student cooking. [Groom’s name] strolled in, armed with charm, a great sense of humour, and—crucially—the ability to keep up with [Bride’s name] on a big night out. Suddenly, our dear [Bride’s name] was no longer just conquering netball tournaments and last-minute essay deadlines—she was also head-over-heels, tagging you along on all our shenanigans. And to be fair, [Groom’s name], you slotted right in.

The proposal: I always knew you two were going to last. But, this really got real when [Groom’s name] told me he was going to propose. He confided in me, practically buzzing with nerves and excitement, and let me tell you, I couldn’t have been prouder. From the moment he told me, I was 100% behind this plan—because if anyone deserves that perfect rom-com proposal, it’s our [Bride’s name].

Heartfelt advice: And now, as you take this next step together, I’d like to offer a little bit of advice. I don’t pretend to be an expert in love ([Bride’s name] will attest to that!), but what I do know is that it’s not about what you say—but how you say it. It’s not about what you do—but why you do it. It’s about the small moments that often go unnoticed, and the intention behind every smile, every hug, and every little cup of tea you make each other in the morning. Sure, grand gestures are lovely—but it’s the quiet acts of kindness, patience, and understanding that will carry you through the good times and the bad.

Toast to the couple: So here we are, on the biggest day of your lives—no sticky dance floors in sight, but I’m sure we can re-create the mayhem if we try hard enough at the reception! To my uni pal, who’s now found her perfect match: thank you for all the unforgettable memories, the endless nights out, the hungover brunches, and the countless hours we spent laughing at absolutely nothing. I’m sure marriage will bring its own brand of chaos, but if anyone can handle it, it’s you two. To Mr and Mrs [Surname]!

Example 6: Soul sisters maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Hello, everyone. I know, I know—another speech! But I promise, I’ll keep it short. Not just for your benefit, but because I’m not convinced I’ll be able to get through this without crying. Because, you see, [Bride’s name] is so much more than just a friend to me. I know a lot of you know that I’ve struggled with my mental health, and [Bride’s name] has been the light at the end of my tunnel in so many situations. Today, I’d like to pay tribute to this angel, and pass the baton to [Groom’s name], the luckiest man in the world. 

Stories about the bride: [Bride’s name] is one of those rare souls who never stops believing in you, even when you can’t believe in yourself. She’s the friend who will show up in her pyjamas—arms full of chocolate, DVDs, and tissues—if you so much as hint at having a bad day. She’s the one who laughs with you at the most ridiculous things, and cries with you when life feels overwhelming. Our friendship has spanned dance parties in our pyjamas, late-night heart-to-hearts, and countless cups of tea (and some decidedly questionable cocktails back in the day). She’s been my anchor, my confidante, and my biggest cheerleader through it all.

That’s why seeing [Bride’s name] standing here today, looking radiant and bursting with love, makes my heart feel like it could burst too. 

The couple’s love story: [Groom’s name], you really are the luckiest man alive. From the moment we met, I knew there was something different about you. I know it’s natural to be suspicious of your friend’s boyfriends, but I never had that feeling with you. From the get-go, I just knew you were the real deal. You made [Bride’s name] laugh in that throw-her-head-back kind of way, listened to her ramblings about her day, and genuinely cherished every little quirk that makes her who she is. I saw that. I really saw it.

As I pass the baton of “official protector and cheerleader” from me to you, I do so knowing our girl is in the very best hands. You two bring out the best in each other, and I can’t wait to watch your story unfold, safe in the knowledge that your love is built on kindness, respect, and that unmistakable spark that makes you both beam every time you lock eyes.

Toast to the couple: And so, everyone, please raise your glasses with me. Here’s to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]: may your marriage be filled with endless moments of laughter, honest conversations, and an unwavering belief in each other—even when life gets tough. Thank you for letting me witness such a beautiful love story. I couldn’t be happier, or prouder. To Mr and Mrs [Surname]!

Example 7: Sister from another Mister maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, welcome, welcome. Welcome to the best day of Mr and Mrs [Surname]’s life! For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [your name], and I’m the maid of honour!

Stories about the bride: Now, I know a lot of you already know this. But, [Bride’s name] and I have been friends since we were tiny babies, and that’s because our dads were best friends. We were raised basically as siblings, and I can’t imagine life without her. We’ve shared everything, from clothes to secrets and even chicken pox! Remember when we topped and tailed the same bed with big mittens on our hands so we couldn’t scratch? 

But that’s just how it’s always been with [Bride’s name] and me: sharing everything, from our biggest joys to our itchiest miseries. We were practically sisters then, and we still are now—only with fewer mittens and slightly fewer spots.

The couple’s love story: But, all good things must come to an end, and when one door closes, another opens. [Groom’s name], I couldn’t be happier to welcome you into our big, extended family. From the moment I met you, I knew you’d fit right in. You saw the silly side of her that I’d known for years, and you brought out this beautiful glow in her that I’d never seen before. It was like watching my best friend—my sister—find a missing piece she didn’t even know was gone. You two just work. You click. It’s like you’ve always known each other, and it makes my heart swell with joy (and maybe just a touch of healthy jealousy, I won’t lie!).

But truly, [Groom’s name], welcome to the madness. And let me tell you—now that you’re in, there’s no turning back!

The proposal: Thing is, I don’t need to tell you that. After you asked her dad for permission to propose, you then asked my dad, and then me, so I know you know the score! And if that doesn’t show your dedication, [Groom’s name], I don’t know what does! 

Toast to the couple: With that being said, if everyone would please raise a glass with me: here’s to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. May your marriage be filled with the warmth of family, the comfort of old memories, and the thrill of making new ones. And may your home be every bit as full of laughter, love, and slightly ridiculous stories, as ours has always been.

Cheers to you both—and welcome to the madness!

Example 8: Actual sisters maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Friends, family… people I’ve never met before, welcome. Welcome to the happiest day of my baby sister’s life. So rarely in life do you get the opportunity to be a maid of honour, and even less so do you get the chance to watch your little sister grow from a cheeky, wide-eyed toddler into this stunning, confident bride before our very eyes. Yet here we are—on the day she’s dreamt about since she was prancing around in Mum’s high heels, insisting that they fitted perfectly (they really didn’t!).

Stories about the bride: Growing up with [Bride’s name] was an adventure from day one. Whether we were sneaking downstairs at 6am to watch cartoons, sharing a room and fighting over who got the top bunk, or competing over who could devour the last chocolate biscuit (guilty!), she was always my built-in playmate, partner-in-crime, and best friend. She’s the one person who knows every embarrassing story from my teenage years and still wants to be seen with me in public. That’s true love, if you ask me!

The couple’s love story: Or, so I thought. Until I met [Grooms’ name], and then I saw what true love was. When I saw the way he looked at her—like she was the most important person in the world—I realised I’d been completely outdone in the ‘loving [Bride’s name]’ department. 

[Groom’s name], you slotted right into our bonkers family as though you’d always been part of it, and for that, we’ll be forever grateful. You embrace her quirks, celebrate her achievements (big or small), and you’ve even learned how to survive her occasional hangry moods. (Still need tips on how you do that).

The proposal: [Groom’s name] also really proved how well he knows [Bride’s name] with that proposal. He pulled out all the stops—got the timing right, picked the perfect spot, and even managed to incorporate her favourite flowers and special song. Honestly, I’m still in awe of how he pulled it all off without her cottoning on. It was like something straight out of a rom-com—only better, because it was real, it was them.

And now, here we all are, witnessing a moment that’s been in the making ever since my sister was toddling around the living room insisting she’d marry a prince one day. [Groom’s name] might not have a crown (yet), but he does have the heart of gold our girl deserves—and that’s more than good enough for me.

Toast to the couple: Now, if everyone would kindly raise their glasses with me. Here’s to the bride and groom: may your marriage be as full of laughter as our childhood was, as warm as the home we grew up in, and as boundless as the love that’s brought you together today.

[Groom’s name] I hope you enjoy growing old with her as much as I enjoyed growing up with her. Cheers!

Example 9: Dancing queens maid of honour speech 

Introduction: Goodness me, doesn’t time fly? It feels like only yesterday that [Bride’s name] and I were living it up in ballet class, learning all the skills that turned us into the dance floor terrors we are today. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is [your name], and I’ve known the bride since we were in our very first tutus!

Stories about the bride: Now, what can I tell you about [Bride’s name]? Well, she knows how to cut a rug, that’s for sure! Back when we were kiddies in the dance studio, I quickly learnt three things about [Bride’s name]: she’s got boundless energy, a laugh that can be heard from the back row, and a determined streak like no other. Seriously, that girl would practise her pirouettes until she was positively dizzy—though I’m convinced half the time she just liked spinning until she fell over. But, that’s my girl [Bride’s name], a determination that doesn’t quit. 

The couple’s love story: That’s why I knew that when she met [Groom’s name], it was all over for him. I think it’s safe to say that [Bride’s name] pursued [Groom’s name] the way a leopard pursues a wildebeest! He never stood a chance. But honestly, once you’ve been subjected to [Bride’s name]’s signature combination of charm, relentless dedication, and that million-watt smile, it’s impossible to run. Before we knew it, [Groom’s name] was twirling around the living room with her, fully embracing her impromptu dance parties. A dancing queen in training!

Heartfelt advice: If you want my advice, take her lead. [Bride’s name] has this magical way of turning the mundane into the marvellous—whether it’s a spontaneous Friday night kitchen dance party or a quick boogie down the aisles of Tesco, she’ll keep you dancing magically through life. 

Toast to the couple: Now, if everyone would kindly raise their glasses (or strike a pose if you’re feeling fancy): here’s to [Bride’s name] and [Groom’s name]. The new dancing King and Queen of [your town]!

Example 10: Partners in crime maid of honour speech  

Introduction: *Tap on the mic* Is this thing on? I’m joking, guys. I heard all your speeches! Welcome, welcome, welcome, everyone, to the best day of [Bride’s name]’s life and the open mic you wish you never attended. My name is [your name] and I have the absolute pleasure of being [Bride’s name]’s partner in crime. Well, I say that—it’s usually me tagging along while she drags me into another one of her brilliant ideas.

Stories about the bride: I’ve lost count of the number of times we’ve ended up in ridiculous predicaments together, whether that’s getting hopelessly lost on a countryside walk (despite the very clear signage), or convincing ourselves that we should try that questionable pub karaoke at 1am. Yet here we are, still in one piece, and now she’s roped in [Groom’s name] to join the fun!

For those who don’t know [Bride’s name], let me give you a quick rundown: she’s the one who’ll tell you, “Oh, it’ll be fine, don’t overthink it,” right before you both climb through a random fence into what turns out to be private property. She’s also the person you want by your side when life gets tough—because no matter how sticky the situation, [Bride’s name] comes armed with laughter, loyalty, and a bag of snacks big enough to feed the entire crew. Seriously, this woman knows how to cheer you up and talk you into an adventure all in the same breath!

The couple’s love story: Then along came [Groom’s name]. I could tell right away that he was the real deal—he kept up with her shenanigans, and still decided to stick around. From sneaking out to watch the sunrise (and realising you’d parked in the wrong car park) to that spontaneous weekend away (where neither of you checked if the hotel had heating—whoops!), you two have formed a formidable team. And I must say, I’m a little jealous—after all these years of being [Bride’s name]’s accomplice, you just stroll in and sweep her off her feet!

The proposal: Having said that, you know how to plan a trick or two, don’t you [Groom’s name]? The proposal was nothing short of spectacular. And what’s more, yours truly got to be involved! I’m sure you’ve all heard the story, but proposing on the very spot where you first met, surrounded by your nearest and dearest, was an absolute stroke of genius. Of course, [Bride’s name] still managed to look gorgeous despite all the frantic flapping and hush-hush whispering going on behind her back. And when she finally realised what was happening—well, I don’t think I’ve ever seen her speechless, but you managed it!

Toast to the couple: Now, if everyone would kindly raise a glass with me. To Mr and Mrs [Surname]. May your lives together be filled with as many spontaneous escapades, hilarious hiccups, and triumphant escapes as your relationship has been so far. And may you always find your way back, even when the signs are very clearly pointing in the opposite direction!

Cheers, my loves!